Sleep Problems and Night time Feedings
Sleep
Problems and Night time Feedings
Although your baby may give up regular
nighttime feedings on his own by the time he’s three months old, do not expect
– or insist – that such a young infant give them up altogether, all of a
sudden.
But if your child is at least three months
old, still nurses or requires a bottle at bedtime, and needs to eat again
several more times during the night, then the extra feedings may well be
causing the extra wakings. If that is the case, you may be able to help him
sleep better by decreasing the number of these feedings.
However, if your baby takes in a
substantial amount of food – from extended feedings at the breast, or bottles
adding up to more than eight ounces over the course of the night – then he has
learned that certain times of night are mealtimes. To eliminate these feedings
suddenly wouldn’t be wise or nice.
The amount of milk or juice your child
drinks during the night may be considerable. If he finishes four full
eight-ounce bottles, that is a large amount for even an adult to consume
overnight.
Solving
The Problem
If you have concluded that excessive and
unnecessary feedings at night are disrupting your child’s sleep, you will be
relieved to learn that although such feedings can lead to severe sleep
disturbances, the problem is also one of the easiest to fix.
Two things need to be addressed. The first
is to reduce or eliminate the nighttime feedings to avoid their various
sleep-disrupting effects. The second is to teach your child new sleep associations
so that he can fall asleep without being held, without eating, and without
sucking on the breast or bottle. You can do these things at the same time, or
one at a time.
To fix the problems caused by the feedings,
start by gradually decreasing the number of nighttime feedings, their size, or
both. Just don’t stop the feedings suddenly. A program designed to allow new
patterns to develop will be easier for him to follow.
Your goal is to gradually move your child’s
feelings of hunger out of the nighttime and into the daytime. Once there is
only a single remaining nighttime feeding left, you can choose to stop that
feeding right away – instead of gradually – if you prefer, since the total
amount of ingested food during the night is now fairly small.
If you are working on sleep associations
and hunger patterns simultaneously, put your child in bed as soon as each
feeding is over, even if he wakes and begins to cry. If you nurse him and he
sleeps next to you, move him off of you when the feeding is done so that he can
learn to fall asleep without using your breast as a pacifier. You’ve just fed
him, so he is not hungry – now you are only changing his expectation of what
happens while he falls asleep.
Within a week, if all goes well, you will
have finished cutting down or even eliminating the nighttime feedings. After
that, continue applying the technique of progressive waiting at any waking at
night (except for feeding times) until the wakings stop. It should not take
more than another few days.
If you want to learn more you can check Baby Sleep Miracle Guide
Baby Sleep Miracle Guide provides parents with a simple and
easy-to-apply solution to regulate the sleeping pattern of their children.
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